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		<title>The Habit Change Cheatsheet: How to Successfully Engrain a Behavior</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Changing behaviors that are deeply engrained can seem next to impossible at times, but it doesn't have to be.  Here are 29 straightforward tips for breaking out of the rut of a bad habit.  


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<p><em><strong>We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.</strong> &#8212; Aristotle </em></p>
<p>Guest post by <a href="http://zenhabits.net/about/">Leo Babauta</a>.</p>
<p>Our daily lives are often a series of habits played out through the day, a trammeled existence fettered by the slow accretion of our previous actions.</p>
<p>But habits can be changed, as difficult as that may seem sometimes.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a living example: in tiny, almost infinitesimal steps, I&#8217;ve changed a laundry list of habits. Quit smoking, stopped impulse spending, got out of debt, began running and waking early and eating healthier and becoming frugal and simplifying my life and becoming organized and focused and productive, ran three marathons and a couple of triathlons, started a few successful blogs, eliminated my debt … you get the picture.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s possible.</p>
<p>And while I&#8217;ve written about habit change many times over the course of the life of Zen Habits, today I thought I&#8217;d put the best tips all together in one cheatsheet, for those new to the blog and for those who could use the reminders.</p>
<p><strong>Keep it simple</strong><br />
Habit change is not that complicated. While the tips below will seem overwhelming, there&#8217;s really only a few things you need to know. Everything else is just helping these to become reality.</p>
<p>The simple steps of habit change:</p>
<p>1. Write down your plan.</p>
<p>2. Identify your triggers and replacement habits.</p>
<p>3. Focus on doing the replacement habits every single time the triggers happen, for about 30 days.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it. We&#8217;ll talk more about each of these steps, and much more, in the cheatsheet below.</p>
<p><strong>The Habit Change Cheatsheet</strong><br />
The following is a compilation of tips to help you change a habit. Don&#8217;t be overwhelmed — always remember the simple steps above. The rest are different ways to help you become more successful in your habit change.</p>
<p><strong>1. Do just one habit at a time.</strong> Extremely important. Habit change is difficult, even with just one habit. If you do more than one habit at a time, you&#8217;re setting yourself up for failure. Keep it simple, allow yourself to focus, and give yourself the best chance for success. Btw, this is why New Year&#8217;s resolutions often fail — people try to tackle more than one change at a time.</p>
<p><strong>2. Start small.</strong> The smaller the better, because habit change is difficult, and trying to take on too much is a recipe for disaster. Want to exercise? Start with just 5-10 minutes. Want to wake up earlier? Try just 10 minutes earlier for now. Or consider <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/01/two-simple-ways-to-form-new-habits-without-really-trying/" target="_blank">half habits</a>.</p>
<p><strong>3. Do a 30-day Challenge.</strong> In my experience, it takes about 30 days to change a habit, if you&#8217;re focused and consistent. This is a round number and will vary from person to person and habit to habit. Often you&#8217;ll read a magical &#8220;21 days&#8221; to change a habit, but this is a myth with no evidence. Seriously — try to find the evidence from a scientific study for this. A more recent study shows that 66 days is a better number (<a href="http://www.spring.org.uk/2009/09/how-long-to-form-a-habit.php" target="_blank">read more</a>). But 30 days is a good number to get you started. Your challenge: stick with a habit every day for 30 days, and post your daily progress updates to a forum.</p>
<p><strong>4. Write it down.</strong> Just saying you&#8217;re going to change the habit is not enough of a commitment. You need to actually write it down, on paper. Write what habit you&#8217;re going to change.</p>
<p><strong>5. Make a plan.</strong> While you&#8217;re writing, also write down a plan. This will ensure you&#8217;re really prepared. The plan should include your reasons (motivations) for changing, obstacles, triggers, support buddies, and other ways you&#8217;re going to make this a success. More on each of these below.</p>
<p><strong>6. Know your motivations, and be sure they&#8217;re strong. </strong>Write them down in your plan. You have to be very clear why you&#8217;re doing this, and the benefits of doing it need to be clear in your head. If you&#8217;re just doing it for vanity, while that can be a good motivator, it&#8217;s not usually enough. We need something stronger. For me, I quit smoking for my wife and kids. I made a promise to them. I knew if I didn&#8217;t smoke, not only would they be without a husband and father, but they&#8217;d be more likely to smoke themselves (my wife was a smoker and quit with me).</p>
<p><strong>7. Don&#8217;t start right away.</strong> In your plan, write down a start date. Maybe a week or two from the date you start writing out the plan. When you start right away (like today), you are not giving the plan the seriousness it deserves. When you have a &#8220;Quit Date&#8221; or &#8220;Start Date&#8221;, it gives that date an air of significance. Tell everyone about your quit date (or start date). Put it up on your wall or computer desktop. Make this a Big Day. It builds up anticipation and excitement, and helps you to prepare.</p>
<p><strong>8. Write down all your obstacles.</strong> If you&#8217;ve tried this habit change before (odds are you have), you&#8217;ve likely failed. Reflect on those failures, and figure out what stopped you from succeeding. Write down every obstacle that&#8217;s happened to you, and others that are likely to happen. Then write down how you plan to overcome them. That&#8217;s the key: write down your solution before the obstacles arrive, so you&#8217;re prepared.</p>
<p><strong>9. Identify your triggers.</strong> What situations trigger your current habit? For the smoking habit, for example, triggers might include waking in the morning, having coffee, drinking alcohol, stressful meetings, going out with friends, driving, etc. Most habits have multiple triggers. Identify all of them and write them in your plan.</p>
<p><strong>10. For every single trigger, identify a positive habit you&#8217;re going to do instead. </strong>When you first wake in the morning, instead of smoking, what will you do? What about when you get stressed? When you go out with friends? Some positive habits could include: exercise, meditation, deep breathing, organizing, decluttering, and more.</p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;Habit is habit, and not to be flung out of the window by any man, but coaxed downstairs a step at a time.&#8221;</strong> &#8212; Mark Twain </em></p>
<p><strong>11. Plan a support system.</strong> Who will you turn to when you have a strong urge? Write these people into your plan. Support forums online are a great tool as well — I used a smoking cessation forum on about.com when I quit smoking, and it really helped. Don&#8217;t underestimate the power of support — it&#8217;s really important.</p>
<p><strong>12. Ask for help.</strong> Get your family and friends and co-workers to support you. Ask them for their help, and let them know how important this is. Find an AA group in your area. Join online forums where people are trying to quit. When you have really strong urges or a really difficult time, call on your support network for help. Don&#8217;t smoke a cigarette, for example, without posting to your online quit forum. Don&#8217;t have a drop of alcohol before calling your AA buddy.</p>
<p><strong>13. Become aware of self-talk.</strong> You talk to yourself, in your head, all the time — but often we&#8217;re not aware of these thoughts. Start listening. These thoughts can derail any habit change, any goal. Often they&#8217;re negative: &#8220;I can&#8217;t do this. This is too difficult. Why am I putting myself through this? How bad is this for me anyway? I&#8217;m not strong enough. I don&#8217;t have enough discipline. I suck.&#8221; It&#8217;s important to know you&#8217;re doing this.</p>
<p><strong>14. Stay positive.</strong> You will have negative thoughts — the important thing is to realize when you&#8217;re having them, and push them out of your head. Squash them like a bug! Then replace them with a positive thought. &#8220;I can do this! If Leo can do it, so can I!&#8221; :)</p>
<p><strong>15. Have strategies to defeat the urge.</strong> Urges are going to come — they&#8217;re inevitable, and they&#8217;re strong. But they&#8217;re also temporary, and beatable. Urges usually last about a minute or two, and they come in waves of varying strength. You just need to ride out the wave, and the urge will go away. Some strategies for making it through the urge: deep breathing, self-massage, eat some frozen grapes, take a walk, exercise, drink a glass of water, call a support buddy, post on a support forum.</p>
<p><strong>16. Prepare for the sabotagers.</strong> There will always be people who are negative, who try to get you to do your old habit. Be ready for them. Confront them, and be direct: you don&#8217;t need them to try to sabotage you, you need their support, and if they can&#8217;t support you then you don&#8217;t want to be around them.</p>
<p><strong>17. Talk to yourself.</strong> Be your own cheerleader, give yourself pep talks, repeat your mantra (below), and don&#8217;t be afraid to seem crazy to others. We&#8217;ll see who&#8217;s crazy when you&#8217;ve changed your habit and they&#8217;re still lazy, unhealthy slobs!</p>
<p><strong>18. Have a mantra.</strong> For quitting smoking, mine was &#8220;Not One Puff Ever&#8221; (I didn&#8217;t make this up, but it worked — more on this below). When I wanted to quit my day job, it was &#8220;Liberate Yourself&#8221;. This is just a way to remind yourself of what you&#8217;re trying to do.</p>
<p><strong>19. Use visualization.</strong> This is powerful. Vividly picture, in your head, successfully changing your habit. Visualize doing your new habit after each trigger, overcoming urges, and what it will look like when you&#8217;re done. This seems new-agey, but it really works.</p>
<p><strong>20. Have rewards.</strong> Regular ones. You might see these as bribes, but actually they&#8217;re just positive feedback. Put these into your plan, along with the milestones at which you&#8217;ll receive them.</p>
<p><strong>21. Take it one urge at a time.</strong> Often we&#8217;re told to take it one day at a time — which is good advice — but really it&#8217;s one urge at a time. Just make it through this urge.</p>
<p><strong>22. Not One Puff Ever (in other words, no exceptions).</strong> This seems harsh, but it&#8217;s a necessity: when you&#8217;re trying to break the bonds between an old habit and a trigger, and form a new bond between the trigger and a new habit, you need to be really consistent. You can&#8217;t do it sometimes, or there will be no new bond, or at least it will take a really really long time to form. So, at least for the first 30 days (and preferably 60), you need to have no exceptions. Each time a trigger happens, you need to do the new habit and not the old one. No exceptions, or you&#8217;ll have a backslide. If you do mess up, regroup, learn from your mistake, plan for your success, and try again (see the last item on this list).</p>
<p><strong>23. Get rest.</strong> Being tired leaves us vulnerable to relapse. Get a lot of rest so you can have the energy to overcome urges.</p>
<p><strong>24. Drink lots of water. </strong>Similar to the item above, being dehydrated leaves us open to failure. Stay hydrated!</p>
<p><strong>25. Renew your commitment often.</strong> Remind yourself of your commitment hourly, and at the beginning and end of each day. Read your plan. Celebrate your success. Prepare yourself for obstacles and urges.</p>
<p><strong>26. Set up public accountability.</strong> Blog about it, post on a forum, email your commitment and daily progress to friend and family, post a chart up at your office, write a column for your local newspaper (I did this when I ran my first marathon). When we make it public — not just the commitment but the progress updates — we don&#8217;t want to fail.</p>
<p><strong>27. Engineer it so it&#8217;s hard to fail.</strong> Create a groove that&#8217;s harder to get out of than to stay in: increase positive feedback for sticking with the habit, and increase negative feedback for not doing the habit. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/09/engineer-life-set-up-habit-changes-so-its-hard-to-fail/" target="_blank">Read more on this method</a>.</p>
<p><strong>28. Avoid some situations where you normally do your old habit, at least for awhile, to make it a bit easier on yourself. </strong>If you normally drink when you go out with friends, consider not going out for a little while. If you normally go outside your office with co-workers to smoke, avoid going out with them. This applies to any bad habit — whether it be eating junk food or doing drugs, there are some situations you can avoid that are especially difficult for someone trying to change a bad habit. Realize, though, that when you go back to those situations, you will still get the old urges, and when that happens you should be prepared.</p>
<p><strong>29. If you fail, figure out what went wrong, plan for it, and try again. </strong>Don&#8217;t let failure and guilt stop you. They&#8217;re just obstacles, but they can be overcome. In fact, if you learn from each failure, they become stepping stones to your success. Regroup. Let go of guilt. Learn. Plan. And get back on that horse.</p>
<p><strong><em>Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones. &#8211; Benjamin Franklin </em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/09/the-habit-change-cheatsheet-29-ways-to-successfully-ingrain-a-behavior/">The Habit Change Cheatsheet: 29 Ways to Successfully Ingrain a Behavior</a> at <a href="http://zenhabits.net/">Zenhabits</a>.</p>


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		<description><![CDATA[In today's hectic world, it often seems that the best way to get ahead is to simply move faster than everyone else.  But could it be that it's actually the exact opposite?  Here are some practical benefits that can result from harnessing the power of incremental change. 


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<p><em><strong>&#8220;Wisely, and slow. They stumble that run fast.&#8221;</strong> &#8211; William Shakespeare</em></p>
<p>Post written by <a href="http://zenhabits.net/about/">Leo Babauta</a>. Follow me on <a href="http://twitter.com/zen_habits">Twitter</a>.</p>
<p>How many times have you rushed into making changes in your life — a habit change, learning a new skill — only to have it flop?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not just the New Year&#8217;s Resolution Syndrome — it happens too often at all times of the year, that we run out of steam or get discouraged and give up.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the secret, and I won&#8217;t charge you $29.95 for it: go slowly.</p>
<p>This little change has more power than most people realize. It will help to learn any skill, from martial arts to art to computer activities. It will help form habits that are long-lasting. Slowing down will help you become more effective and ironically, help reach goals faster.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve ever tried T&#8217;ai Chi (or Taijiquan), famous for its series of slow movements and poses, you&#8217;ve felt the power of slow. The slower you go in T&#8217;ai Chi, the better, for many reasons. One effect of this slowness is that you perfect the movements. And your body adapts, forming muscle memories that will last when (and if) you decide to speed up the movements.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s as if your body and mind are forming a groove through continual repetition of the movements. If you move quickly, you&#8217;ll be erratic, and the groove will be much more difficult to form. If you move slowly, you can learn to move in exactly the same pattern, in a more precise way, and a groove will form. Once the groove is formed, it becomes easier. It&#8217;s now habit, unconscious memory, and automatic.</p>
<p>This is habit formation, and usually it&#8217;s done without thought. When we drive home and our minds are on something else, but we make the right motions to get home anyway … this is habit, this is our minds and bodies going in a groove we&#8217;ve formed by doing these actions so many times before.</p>
<p>The groove is best formed by going slow, at first.</p>
<p>This applies to anything: exercise, eating healthy, creating art, becoming a patient parent, carpentry, reading. Slow is the secret to making it last. And no, that&#8217;s not meant to be dirty.</p>
<p>Some of the reasons slow works, besides forming a groove:</p>
<p><strong>1. Mindfulness</strong>. When you do something slowly, you can pay more attention to what you&#8217;re doing. I highly recommend that when you make changes, you do them mindfully, with full concentration. This increased awareness is necessary in the beginning, when you&#8217;re still forming the groove. Later, it&#8217;ll become automatic, but at first it&#8217;s anything but. You need to pay attention, and you can do this better when you do it slower.</p>
<p><strong>2. You hold yourself back</strong>. Holding ourselves back is often considered a bad thing, but it&#8217;s not. It&#8217;s the best thing we can do, if we want changes to last. When we start a new change, often we are full of enthusiasm. But then we go all out and use up all of that enthusiasm, and run out of motivation or energy or get distracted by something else. But when you hold yourself back, you build up enthusiasm and keep it going for much longer — through that dreaded 2-3 week barrier when people often quit. So even if you want to run 3 miles at first, start with walking and then run-walking (in intervals), and only do a mile or so. You&#8217;ll want to do more, but stop yourself. Save that enthusiasm for next time.</p>
<p><strong>3. You learn it right</strong>. Doing something slowly means you can learn to do it correctly, without being erratic, and later as it becomes second nature you&#8217;ll do it the right way. The importance is obvious in something like martial arts, but it&#8217;s also true in any physical activity. And every activity is physical (and mental).</p>
<p><strong>4. Increased focus</strong>. When you do something slowly, you tend to do just one thing. It&#8217;s hard to multi-task and do something slowly — they don&#8217;t mix well. When you single-task, you can focus, instead of always being distracted. This leads to increased effectiveness.</p>
<p><strong>5. Calm</strong>. Slow is calmer. Fast is hectic. Go slow to get rid of the chaos, and find peace.</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;Slow down, everyone. You&#8217;re moving too fast.&#8221;</em></strong> &#8211; Jack Johnson</p>
<p>[Editor's note: As always, thanks to Leo Babauta for his thoughts and willingness to share them. - tg]</p>
<p>This post and others from Leo Babauta can found at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">http://zenhabits.net</a>.  Used with the author&#8217;s permission.</p>
<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/09/the-slow-secret-how-to-make-lasting-changes-in-your-life/">Original Article</a> at Zen Habits.</p>


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		<description><![CDATA[The way we eat can often be reflective of our general approach to life, but it's not only a gauge—our pace can also have a direct impact on our personal well being and interactions throughout the day. Slowing down is a great way to keep your cool in general, but here are five additional benefits that can easily come from applying the principle at meals.


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<p><em>The way we eat can often be reflective of our general approach to life, but it&#8217;s not only a gauge—our pace can also have a direct impact on our personal well being and interactions throughout the day.   Slowing down is a great way to keep your cool in general, but here are five additional benefits that can easily come from applying the principle at meals. In addition to the five reasons Leo notes, I&#8217;d also add that slowing down at meals also has an important social benefit—it allows you focus on the people you&#8217;re eating with and enjoy the conversation.  It&#8217;s always nice to have meals center not on the food but on the company.  Thanks as always to Leo Babauta for his thoughts. -tg<br />
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<p>By Leo Babauta, editor of <a href="http://zenhabits.net">zenhabits.net.</a></p>
<p>If you read the <a href="http://www.slowfood.com/about_us/eng/manifesto.lasso">Slow Food Manifesto</a>, you&#8217;ll see that it&#8217;s not just about health — it&#8217;s about a lifestyle. And whether you want to adopt that lifestyle or not, there are some reasons you should consider the simple act of eating slower:</p>
<p>One of the problems in our daily lives is that many of us rush through the day, with no time for anything … and when we have time to get a bite to eat, we gobble it down.</p>
<p>That leads to stressful, unhealthy living.</p>
<p>And with the simple but powerful act of eating slower, we can begin to reverse that lifestyle immediately. How hard is it? You take smaller bites, you chew each bite slower and longer, and you enjoy your meal longer.</p>
<p>It takes a few minutes extra each meal, and yet it can have profound effects.</p>
<p>You may have already heard of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slow_Food">Slow Food Movement</a>, started in Italy almost two decades ago to counter the fast food movement. Everything that fast food is, Slow Food isn&#8217;t.</p>
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<li><strong>Lose weight.</strong> A <a href="http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2006-11-15-slower-eating_x.htm">growing</a> <a href="http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/04223/359071.stm">number</a> of <a href="http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=55876">studies</a> confirm that just by eating slower, you&#8217;ll consume fewer calories — in fact, enough to lose 20 pounds a year without doing anything different or eating anything different. The reason is that it takes about 20 minutes for our brains to register that we&#8217;re full. If we eat fast, we can continue eating past the point where we&#8217;re full. If we eat slowly, we have time to realize we&#8217;re full, and stop on time. Now, I would still recommend that you eat healthier foods, but if you&#8217;re looking to lose weight, eating slowly should be a part of your new lifestyle.</li>
<li><strong>Enjoy your food.</strong> This reason is just as powerful, in my opinion. It&#8217;s hard to enjoy your food if it goes by too quickly. In fact, I think it&#8217;s fine to eat sinful foods, if you eat a small amount slowly. Think about it: you want to eat sinful foods (desserts, fried foods, pizza, etc.) because they taste good. But if you eat them fast, what&#8217;s the point? If you eat them slowly, you can get the same amount of great taste, but with less going into your stomach. That&#8217;s math that works for me. And that argument aside, I think you are just happier by tasting great food and enjoying it fully, by eating slowly. Make your meals a gastronomic pleasure, not a thing you do rushed, between stressful events.</li>
<li><strong>Better digestion.</strong> If you eat slower, you&#8217;ll chew your food better, which leads to better digestion. Digestion actually starts in the mouth, so the more work you do up there, the less you&#8217;ll have to do in your stomach. This can help lead to fewer digestive problems.</li>
<li><strong>Less stress.</strong> Eating slowly, and paying attention to our eating, can be a great form of<a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/07/5-inspirations-for-being-in-the-moment/">mindfulness exercise</a>. Be in the moment, rather than rushing through a meal thinking about what you need to do next. When you eat, you should eat. This kind of mindfulness, I believe, will lead to a less stressful life, and long-term happiness. Give it a try.</li>
<li><strong>Rebel against fast food and fast life.</strong> Our hectic, fast-paced, stressful, chaotic lives — the Fast Life — leads to eating Fast Food, and eating it quickly. This is a lifestyle that is dehumanizing us, making us unhealthy, stressed out, and unhappy. We rush through our day, doing one mindless task after another, without taking the time to live life, to enjoy life, to relate to each other, to be human. That&#8217;s not a good thing in my book. Instead, rebel against that entire lifestyle and philosophy … with the small act of eating slower. Don&#8217;t eat Fast Food. Eat at a good restaurant, or better yet, cook your own food and enjoy it fully. Taste life itself.</li>
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<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2007/07/5-powerful-reasons-to-eat-slower/">5 Powerful Reasons to Eat Slower</a> at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">Zen Habits</a>.</p>


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<p><em><strong>We all need an extra boost of discipline from time to time.  Here are 6 small things you can do to stick to your commitments and build a mindset centered on what truly motivates you. </strong></em></p>
<p>By Leo Babauta, editor of <a href="http://zenhabits.net">Zen Habits</a>.</p>
<p>One of the biggest problems people face is the lack of discipline — they have goals or habits they want to achieve, but lack that discipline needed to stick with it.</p>
<p>Then we beat ourselves up about it. We feel crappy because we can&#8217;t stick with it.</p>
<p>And that leads to more failure, because we&#8217;re forming a mindset that we don&#8217;t have the necessary discipline.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what to do when you face a situation like this:</p>
<p>1. <strong>Forgive yourself. </strong>You aren&#8217;t perfect. No one is. Realize that beating yourself up will only make things worse. Take a few slow, deep breaths and let it go. Forgive yourself. And move on.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Realize that discipline is an illusion.</strong> While discipline is a common concept, it doesn&#8217;t actually exist. It&#8217;s not a thing you can actually do. Think about it: people say discipline is pushing yourself to do something you don&#8217;t want to do. But how do you do that? What skill is required? There isn&#8217;t a skill — it&#8217;s just forcing yourself to do something you don&#8217;t want to do. And that requires … some kind of motivation. Without motivation, you won&#8217;t be able to force yourself to do anything. So motivation is the key concept — and this is something that&#8217;s real, that you can actually learn how to do.</p>
<p>3. <strong>Focus on motivation.</strong> What&#8217;s your motivation for pursuing the goal or habit? How will you sustain the motivation when you struggle? Have very strong motivations for doing something, and write them down. Commit publicly. When things get tough, remind yourself of your motivation. Focus on it. It&#8217;ll pull you along — that&#8217;s more powerful than trying to focus on the push of discipline.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Make it easy.</strong> Discipline is tough because whatever the task or habit you&#8217;re trying to do is tough. Instead, make it easy. Remove barriers. Having a hard time exercising? Make it ridiculously easy, by only exercising for 5 minutes. What use is exercising for 5 minutes? You&#8217;re creating the habit, not getting yourself into shape overnight. The 5 minutes of exercise will have only a tiny impact on your health, but it makes exercise super easy. If you can do that 30 days in a row, you now have an exercise habit. Hate waking up early to go to the gym? Do it at home. Do it during lunch or after work.</p>
<p>5. <strong>Focus on enjoyment.</strong> It&#8217;s hard to push yourself — to have discipline — when you hate doing something. So find something enjoyable about the activity. If you don&#8217;t look forward to exercise, find some good music, or a workout partner who you can have a nice conversation with, or a peaceful setting in nature that is just beautiful. And focus on that enjoyable aspect. Hate doing your paperwork? Find a peaceful sanctuary where you can do the paperwork and enjoy yourself. Maybe have a nice cup of tea or coffee, play some nice music. And focus on the enjoyment.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Repeat.</strong> You&#8217;ll almost inevitably slip up sometime, no matter how good you are. Unfortunately, people often take this to mean they don&#8217;t have discipline, and they just beat themselves up and give up. Well, it&#8217;s just a bump in the road. Get up, dust yourself off, and get going again. Start from Step 1 and start all over.</p>
<p>[Editor's note: As always, thanks to Leo Babauta for his thoughts and willingness to share them.  I think the motivation aspect is particularly important, because even the best things in the word can become tortuous if your motivation is somewhere else.  In my experience, focusing on the goal—rather than the means—is the best possible way to develop the motivation to push on through whatever the means happen to be.  To use a fitness analogy, is the goal just to "make myself go to the gym"?  If so, that's going to be pretty hard to maintain when you just don't have any desire to do so.  Only by focusing on the why can we really have an appreciation for what's needed to get there.  For some of my thoughts on the reasons it's worth trying to be a gentleman (as opposed to just looking like one), check out <a href="http://gentscheatsheet.com/wordpress/?p=544">So What IS a Gentleman, Anyways? </a> - tg]</p>
<p>This post and others from Leo Babauta can found at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">http://zenhabits.net</a>.  Used with the author&#8217;s permission.</p>
<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/05/6-small-things-you-can-do-when-you-lack-discipline/">Original Article</a> at Zen Habits.</p>
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&#8220;Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.&#8221;
&#8211; Ben Franklin, famously
&#8220;Put no trust in the benefits to accrue from early rising, as set forth by the infatuated Franklin …
&#8211;Mark Twain
[Editor's note: Thanks to Leo Babauta for his post on the benefits of rising early.  As someone who often needs some [...]


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<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.&#8221;<br />
</em>&#8211; Ben Franklin, famously</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Put no trust in the benefits to accrue from early rising, as set forth by the infatuated Franklin …<br />
</em>&#8211;<a href="http://marktwainclassics.com">Mark Twain</a></p></blockquote>
<p>[Editor's note: Thanks to Leo Babauta for his post on the benefits of rising early.  As someone who often needs some extra motivation to wake up early myself, it's nice to have this reminder of just how important it is--and the sort of impact it can make on the rest of your interactions throughout the day.  If you want to be able to <a href="http://gentscheatsheet.com/wordpress/?cat=13">keep your cool</a>, stay positive, or even just <a href="http://gentscheatsheet.com/wordpress/?p=131">know what's happening in the world around you</a>, getting up early is a fantastic way to start.  -tg]</p>
<p>By Leo Babauta, editor of <a href="http://zenhabits.net">zenhabits.net.</a></p>
<p>Recently, reader <a href="http://www.blog.7breaths.co.uk/">Rob </a> asked me about my habit of waking at 4:30 a.m. each day, and asked me to write about the health benefits of rising early, which I thought was an excellent question. Unfortunately, there are none, that I know of.</p>
<p><strong>However, there are a ton of other great benefits.</strong></p>
<p>Now, let me first say that if you are a night owl, and that works for you, I think that&#8217;s great. There&#8217;s no reason to change, especially if you&#8217;re happy with it. But for me, switching from being a night owl to an early riser (and yes, it is possible) has been a godsend. It has helped me in so many ways that I&#8217;d never go back. Here are just a few:</p>
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<li><strong>Greet the day</strong>. I love being able to get up, and greet a wonderful new day. I suggest creating a morning ritual that includes saying thanks for your blessings. I&#8217;m inspired by the Dalai Lama, who said, &#8220;Everyday, think as you wake up, &#8216;today I am fortunate to have woken up, I am alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others, to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings, I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others, I am going to benefit others as much as I can.&#8217;&#8221;</li>
<li><strong>Amazing start</strong>. I used to start my day by jumping out of bed, late as usual, and rushing to get myself and the kids ready, and rushing to drop them to school and come in to work late. I would walk into work, looking rumpled and barely awake, grumpy and behind everyone else. Not a great start to your day. Now, I have a renewing morning ritual, I&#8217;ve gotten so much done before 8 a.m., my kids are early and so am I, and by the time everyone else gets in to work, I&#8217;ve already gotten a head start. There is no better way to start off your day than to wake early, in my experience.</li>
<li><strong>Quietude</strong>. No kids yelling, no babies crying, no soccer balls, no cars, no television noise. The early morning hours are so peaceful, so quiet. It&#8217;s my favorite time of day. I truly enjoy that time of peace, that time to myself, when I can think, when I can read, when I can breathe.</li>
<li><strong>Sunrise</strong>. People who wake late miss one of the greatest feats of nature, repeated in full stereovision each and every day — the rise of the sun. I love how the day slowly gets brighter, when the midnight blue turns to lighter blue, when the brilliant colors start to seep into the sky, when nature is painted in incredible colors. I like doing my early morning run during this time, and I look up at the sky as I run and say to the world, &#8220;What a glorious day!&#8221; Really. I really do that. Corny, I know.</li>
<li><strong>Breakfast</strong>. Rise early and you actually have time for breakfast. I&#8217;m told it&#8217;s one of the most important meals of the day. Without breakfast, your body is running on fumes until you are so hungry at lunchtime that you eat whatever unhealthy thing you can find. The fattier and sugarier, the betterier. But eat breakfast, and you are sated until later. Plus, eating breakfast while reading my book and drinking my coffee in the quiet of the morning is eminently more enjoyable than scarfing something down on the way to work, or at your desk.</li>
<li><strong>Exercise</strong>. There are other times to exercise besides the early morning, of course, but I&#8217;ve found that while exercising right after work is also very enjoyable, it&#8217;s also liable to be canceled because of other things that come up. Morning exercise is virtually never canceled.</li>
<li><strong>Productivity</strong>. Mornings, for me at least, are the most productive time of day. I like to do some writing in the morning, when there are no distractions, before I check my email or blog stats. I get so much more done by starting on my work in the morning. Then, when evening rolls around, I have no work that I need to do, and I can spend it with family.</li>
<li><strong>Goal time</strong>. Got goals? Well, you should. And there&#8217;s no better time to review them and plan for them and do your goal tasks than first thing. You should have one goal that you want to accomplish this week. And every morning, you should decide what one thing you can do today to move yourself further towards that goal. And then, if possible, do that first thing in the morning.</li>
<li><strong>Commute</strong>. No one likes rush-hour traffic, except for Big Oil. Commute early, and the traffic is much lighter, and you get to work faster, and thus save yourself more time. Or better yet, commute by bike. (Or even better yet, work from home.)</li>
<li><strong>Appointments</strong>. It&#8217;s much easier to make those early appointments on time if you get up early. Showing up late for that appointment is a bad signal to the person you&#8217;re meeting. Showing up early will impress them. Plus, you get time to prepare.</li>
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<p><strong>How to Become an Early Riser</strong></p>
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<li><strong>Don&#8217;t make drastic changes</strong>. Start slowly, by waking just 15-30 minutes earlier than usual. Get used to this for a few days. Then cut back another 15 minutes. Do this gradually until you get to your goal time.</li>
<li><strong>Allow yourself to sleep earlier</strong>. You might be used to staying up late, perhaps watching TV or surfing the Internet. But if you continue this habit, while trying to get up earlier, sooner or later one is going to give. And if it is the early rising that gives, then you will crash and sleep late and have to start over. <strong>I suggest going to bed earlier, even if you don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll sleep, and read while in bed</strong>. If you&#8217;re really tired, you just might fall asleep much sooner than you think.</li>
<li><strong>Put your alarm clock far from you bed</strong>. If it&#8217;s right next to your bed, you&#8217;ll shut it off or hit snooze. Never hit snooze. If it&#8217;s far from your bed, you have to get up out of bed to shut it off. By then, you&#8217;re up. Now you just have to stay up.</li>
<li><strong>Go out of the bedroom as soon as you shut off the alarm</strong>. Don&#8217;t allow yourself to rationalize going back to bed. Just force yourself to go out of the room. My habit is to stumble into the bathroom and go pee. By the time I&#8217;ve done that, and flushed the toilet and washed my hands and looked at my ugly mug in the mirror, I&#8217;m awake enough to face the day.</li>
<li><strong>Do not rationalize</strong>. If you allow your brain to talk you out of getting up early, you&#8217;ll never do it. Don&#8217;t make getting back in bed an option.</li>
<li><strong>Have a good reason</strong>. Set something to do early in the morning that&#8217;s important. This reason will motivate you to get up. I like to write in the morning, so that&#8217;s my reason. Also, when I&#8217;m done with that, I like to read all of your comments!</li>
<li><strong>Make waking up early a reward</strong>. Yes, it might seem at first that you&#8217;re forcing yourself to do something hard, but if you make it pleasurable, soon you will look forward to waking up early. A good reward is to make a hot cup of coffee or tea and read a book. Other rewards might be a tasty treat for breakfast (smoothies! yum!) or watching the sunrise, or meditating. Find something that&#8217;s pleasurable for you, and allow yourself to do it as part of your morning routine.</li>
<li><strong>Take advantage of all that extra time</strong>. Don&#8217;t wake up an hour or two early just to read your blogs, unless that&#8217;s a major goal of yours. Don&#8217;t wake up early and waste that extra time. Get a jump start on your day! I like to use that time to get a head start on preparing my kids&#8217; lunches, on planning for the rest of the day (when I set my MITs), on exercising or meditating, and on reading. By the time 6:30 rolls around, I&#8217;ve done more than many people do the entire day.</li>
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<p>This post and others from Leo Babauta can found at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">http://zenhabits.net</a>.  Provided at <em>The Gent&#8217;s Cheat Sheet </em> with the permission of the author.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boredom in one area of life can easily mutate into apathy in the rest.  Here are thirty practical tips for fighting boredom and keeping your sanity.  


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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><em>&#8220;The war between being and nothingness is the underlying illness of the twentieth century. Boredom slays more of existence than war.&#8221;<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"> &#8211; Norman Mailer<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">[Editor's note: Thanks to Leo Babauta for these practical tips for fighting boredom.  It's surprising how it's presence in one area of life can trickle in others…so the battle against boredom at work can be more significant than we might think at first.  -tg]<br />
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<p><span style="font-size:10pt">By Leo Babauta, editor of <a href="http://zenhabits.net">zenhabits.net.</a><br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">I&#8217;m not one to get bored, ever … but a number of readers have written in with the question: What do I do if I&#8217;m bored out of my skull at work?<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">It gave me pause, to think about why I can&#8217;t recall ever getting that bored at work. And I realized: I always keep myself busy, doing something, whether it&#8217;s productive or not.<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">Sometimes, I&#8217;m creating a new project, or improving myself somehow … but sometimes I just find interesting stuff to read online or find a cool solitaire game to play. (Well, I haven&#8217;t played any games in awhile, but Freecell used to be my poison of choice a few years ago.)<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">So the short answer: <strong>just find things to entertain yourself</strong>. Keep your mind busy. Challenge yourself. Talk to somebody. Break out of your mold.<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">The longer answer has to do with <strong>analyzing why you&#8217;re bored in the first place</strong>. Is your job that boring? Are you really doing what you want to be doing? Is there a way to start pursuing something better? Or are you already in a great job, but something or someone is holding you back? And what can you do to improve the situation?<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt">I&#8217;m not going to pursue the longer answer in this post, but give you some ideas for the shorter answer. It&#8217;s not an exhaustive list of ideas. Just some things I&#8217;ve done to keep my mind busy — pick and choose those that might work for you.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Create a new challenge</strong>. I think this is by far the best thing on the list, but you may differ. Many times we&#8217;re bored because we don&#8217;t have a challenge — things are too easy or routine. So instead of waiting for someone to create a challenge for you, do it yourself. How can you challenge yourself? Set a new goal at work. Challenge yourself to produce more than ever. Explore new projects. Set personal goals and pursue them. Whatever excites you.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Pursue your next job</strong>. If your job is so boring you don&#8217;t know what to do with yourself, you may need to move on. But instead of quitting right away, start lining up your next gig first. Look around for openings, call people, update your resume and submit it to a few places, pick up a few applications, send out some email feelers. Find something that will never get you bored, something you&#8217;ll be passionate about.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>List your life goals</strong>. What is it you want to accomplish in life? Not just with work, but personally? If you&#8217;ve listed them before, it&#8217;s always good to update them. Then choose one of those goals to achieve this year. Now think about what you can do today to move closer to that goal, even if it&#8217;s just a small thing. Get the ball rolling. Do this every day — move yourself closer to that goal.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Read Zen Habits</strong>. Or whatever your favorite distraction is. If it&#8217;s something that will improve your life, even better. Just limit how long you read at one time, so you&#8217;re not reading through the Zen Habits archives in one sitting.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Declutter your workspace</strong>. If I&#8217;ve got nothing better to do, I&#8217;ll clear off my desk (if there&#8217;s anything there), or start looking around critically at everything in view and asking myself, &#8220;Does that really need to be there? How can I simplify this?&#8221; Weird, I know, but I have an oddly uncluttered workspace. Right now my desk is a table, my iMac, an nothing else. No files, no papers, no office supplies, nothing. Everything is done on my computer, and I love it that way. Nothing on my walls. You may not need anything as spartan as that, but decluttering can be a lot of fun.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Pursue a hobby</strong>. My hobby (until it became a profession) was blogging … I would do it at work in my spare time, or before or after work. Not everyone can pursue their hobby at work — the model airplane glue might bother your coworkers, for example — but sometimes you can just read about it while at work. I was upfront about my blogging and freelancing at work with my boss, btw, but many people get away with doing it on the sly. I won&#8217;t make a recommendation, but just don&#8217;t get fired.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Make your work a game</strong>. You can make a game out of anything. See how many widgets you can crank in 10 minutes. Pretend that your coworkers are evil villains. Imagine that you are a CIA agent in disguise, and no one knows. Or a fairy princess. Whatever floats your boat. :)<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Educate yourself</strong>. On Guam, this is called &#8220;edumacation&#8221; — it&#8217;s not a real word, but we like to play with English. Whatever you call it, you can improve your knowledge online in any area — whether that be work-related or not. Be your own college instructor. Wikipedia is a great place to start, but if you&#8217;re going to have a specialized knowledge in anything, branch out from there.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Improve your skills</strong>. Along the same lines: choose a skill that needs sharpening, and challenge yourself to get better at it. Whether that&#8217;s computer programming, writing, working with Adobe InDesign, or whatever. Perfect your skills — you can use it to further your career, get a new job, or become self-employed. Or just have the satisfaction of knowing you&#8217;re the best you can be at that skill.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Play Sudoku</strong>. Perhaps not the most intellectual game of all time, or the most exciting … but I still find it a lot of fun. I only played it a little while and didn&#8217;t get addicted like other people I know, but I have to admit it&#8217;s a fun way to pass the time.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Choose a soothing desktop picture</strong>. I like to do this when I&#8217;m procrastinating. I will go online, to flickr or some desktop wallpaper website and browse around until I find a very simple, soothing picture. I do this maybe every month or so. In fact, I&#8217;m going to go do that right now!<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Do some pushups and crunches</strong>. If you&#8217;re bored, you might as well start getting in shape. You can do pushups and crunches right there on the floor next to your desk (or go outside if you&#8217;re worried about your coworkers seeing you). Or walk up some steps, or do squats and lunges without weights, or dips in your chair, or butt squeezes (that means squeeze your own butt, not your coworkers&#8217;).<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Take a day or two off</strong>. Sometimes you just need to refresh yourself, recharge your batteries before starting again. Don&#8217;t do any work while you&#8217;re out. Veg out, or read, or sleep, or exercise, or whatever. Get your mind off work. Think about your priorities. Get out in nature. Reconnect with your life.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Take a walk</strong>. Often this is all I need, especially if I&#8217;ve been sitting all day and my blood is pooling up in my butt and legs. I need to get that blood circulating! Go outside, walk around, look at people, look at nature, think about your day and your life and the people in it.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Drink some water</strong>. Dehydration can make us tired and sluggish. Water can refresh us. Keep that water coming all day long — you may need to pee more though.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Call a loved one</strong>. What better time to call someone to catch up, to tell them you love them, to just say hi … than when you&#8217;ve got nothing better to do. It&#8217;s a nice way to stay connected.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Read</strong>. I like to carry a novel everywhere I go. Then I whip it out anytime I have spare time, waiting at the doctor&#8217;s office, in line at the post office, driving in the Indy 500 … you know. If not a novel, carry around a &#8220;to read&#8221; folder with stuff you want or need to read but don&#8217;t have time for right now … then whip it out at your desk when you&#8217;re bored. You could have a &#8220;to read&#8221; folder on your computer too.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Start writing your novel</strong>. Many of us have a novel that&#8217;s tossing itself around in our heads and hearts, waiting to come out. Well, start getting it out, mister. Just start by writing some notes, thinking about characters and plot and what the hell this book is about anyway. It&#8217;s not going to come out by itself.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Take a nap</strong>. If you don&#8217;t have a good place to do this, you can curl up under your desk with a sweater, or go to your car and sleep. I&#8217;ve learned how to fall asleep at my chair, but thank goodness I&#8217;m working at home and can go to the couch in a napping emergency.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Create a new project or role</strong>. If things are stagnating at work, start something new. Create and innovate. What can you do that has a lasting impact for your company and for yourself, for your career? If you&#8217;re stuck in a dead-end role, create a new role for yourself. It doesn&#8217;t matter if it&#8217;s not in the job description. Find something that&#8217;s not being done by someone else, something that needs to be done or that hasn&#8217;t been thought of yet, but that would really benefit the company — and take it upon yourself to do it. You might need to talk to your boss, but sometimes you can just start doing something and inform the higher-ups later. If it&#8217;s good for the company, and if they&#8217;re smart, they&#8217;ll be happy.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Write a love letter</strong>. If you have a significant other, write a letter telling them why you love them. They&#8217;ll love it. Email is fine, but pen and paper are even better.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Do one small thing to make yourself wealthier</strong>. That might be creating a savings account if you don&#8217;t have one yet, or setting up an automatic transfer between checking and savings every payday, or researching a money market fund or index fund, or simply reading Get Rich Slowly or The Simple Dollar for personal finance basics.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Write a blog post</strong>. This is something I love to do when things get slow. I&#8217;ll just call up a text file and start writing. I love lists, of course (you guys should know that by now), so often I&#8217;ll just start making a list, and writing down my thoughts. If things are really slow, I&#8217;ll do the whole blog post. I can always post it later if necessary. Make sure you love what you&#8217;re writing about.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Do an errand</strong>. This can either be in the office (&#8220;Where&#8217;s that ink cartridge I&#8217;ve been needing all week?&#8221;) or outside the office (&#8220;I really should buy toilet paper today!&#8221;). It gets you moving, it gets you away from the scene of your boredom, and it accomplishes something useful.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Update your personal finances</strong>. I used to track my finances through Microsoft Money, but I&#8217;ve since switched to using a Google spreadsheet, so that it&#8217;s online and accessible from anywhere. I considered other online solutions, but personally, I like to keep things as simple as possible. However you do it, it&#8217;s a good idea to update your financial tracking system once a week or so, so that you know where you stand and you don&#8217;t overspend. Got some spare time? Update.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Meditate at your desk</strong>. Some people would say this is just a fancy term for taking a nap. But for me the key is not to fall asleep, but to close my eyes and focus on my breathing. Nothing new-agey about this — it brings your focus back to the present and calms you. Sometimes it&#8217;ll calm you so much you&#8217;ll fall asleep. I say, two birds, one stone.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Organize your files</strong>. OK, this might seem boring to many people, but I like to organize things. I get a perverse satisfaction from purging useless stuff and having everything be smaller, neater, and in order. And it doesn&#8217;t take long.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Clear out your inbox</strong>. I get joy out of an empty inbox, whether that&#8217;s my email inbox or physical one. Crank through it until it&#8217;s empty — you don&#8217;t have to do everything in the inbox, but just make a note of it on your to-do list if you plan to do it later (or delete, file, forward, or do it now). Got a thousand or two emails in your inbox? Put them in a temporary folder and do them later, starting with a fresh inbox. Chances are, you won&#8217;t need to do them at all. Now just keep your inbox empty from here on out.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Crank up the tunes</strong>. Some funky or upbeat tunes might just do the trick. They can make any job much more fun. Either play it on your speakers if your coworkers don&#8217;t mind, or plug in the earbuds. Currently on my playlist: Radiohead, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Jack Johnson, Snow Patrol … I could go on and on.<br />
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<li><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><strong>Get wild!</strong> Sometimes we just need to let loose. Start singing at the top of your lungs, or dance around the office. Sure, people might stare or laugh, but a little fun in the office isn&#8217;t a bad thing. Or get out of the office and do something fun or crazy. One afternoon of wildity isn&#8217;t going to hurt you (well, stay away from things that are illegal or life-threatening, if possible).<br />
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<p><span style="font-family:Tahoma; font-size:10pt"><em>&#8220;The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.&#8221;</em><br />
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<p><span style="font-size:10pt">This post and others from Leo Babauta can found at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">http://zenhabits.net</a>.  Used with the author&#8217;s permission.<br />
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<p><a href="http://zenhabits.net/2008/01/30-things-to-do-to-keep-from-getting-bored-out-of-your-skull-at-work/"><span style="font-size:10pt">Original Article</span></a><span style="font-size:10pt"> at Zen Habits. </span></p>


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